FAQ

"Do you do home visits?"

Yes. I travel locally or abroad, on demand, including a commuting fee.

"Do I have to be naked? Are we having sex?"

First, nothing will happen here that you don’t want to happen. All of your expressed boundaries will be respected; I will coach you on this aspect of expression, and check regularly with you, to make sure any act between us feels 100% safe and wanted. Depending on the offering, we can absolutely perform a full session without any touch, and without taking any clothes off. My practice is first and foremost coaching for intimate safety and empowerment.

Secondly, I reserve the right to apply my own boundaries to any act between us. I am open to discuss your every desire; that said, if you would like to interact in a way that is not explicitly listed on my offers, please get in touch with me to clarify what we can do together.

I never do genital contact on my first session with a new client; all sessions involving genital touch require that you have done "Initiation Into Conscious Intimacy" with me, or have similar previous experience.

• Anecdote about following your inner wisdom:
  During one of my trainings, when I was about to receive a prostate massage (from someone I felt quite attracted to!), I listened to my body and it said “I don’t want to be touched today”. We ended up only moving energy without touch, and it was one of the most powerful experiences I’ve ever had. Our bodies know best !

“What is the Dark? Is it the same as Shadow?”

'Shadow' is the subconscious as understood in modern psychology, what is often unknown and repressed; whereas Light & Dark are both primordial energies with the potential to be healthy, or in shadow.

Light is the energy to nurture what is good within us, a soft approach to healing; it resides in our upper body (expression, thoughts, connection to the subtle esoteric energies). Its unhealthy shadows include: Authoritarianism, Perfectionism, Traditionalism - Sticking to the mold because of fear or shame.

The Dark, potent and vital, is a more primal and dense energy: our inner animal, our warrior and healthy rage. It resides in the lower body (solar plexus, sexuality, root, connected to the material). Its unhealthy shadows include: Disorganization, Addictions, Sexual dysfunctions, loss of vitality because of feeling powerless.

While it is often repressed in modern society, working with the Dark is a process of maturing and healing, with the potential to release intense suppressed emotions, especially lower-body energies related to self-worth, sexuality and feelings of safety.

Whether our Light and Dark aspects are healthy or unhealthy depends on whether or not they are connected to the Heart.

• The Dark in Tantra:
  The Kali worship is at the centre of left-hand-path tantra Yoga. Kali is the black goddess, the all-mother, everything-everywhere-all-at-once, divine Matter. All gods and goddesses of the Hindu pantheon are aspects of Her; she is the color Black - mixing all other colors as one.
  
  Kali is often portrayed as the decapitator. She destroys all that we think we know of ourselves to bring us closer to who we truly are. Kali embodies one of the most esoteric symbols of our times: the black hole.

“What do I get from it?”

My aim is to offer transformative peak experiences and provide tools to raise and maintain your baseline of connection to your higher self.

Together we can overcome past traumas related to sexuality, increase your sensitivity, and support you over time through your journey.

My hope? If you are new to sacred Eros, that the rituals we perform together will forever change your life, how you relate to yourself, your sexuality and others, and to attract the kind of relationships in your life that feel powerful and true; if you are more experienced, that the time we spend together will satisfy and amplify your desire for spiritual growth and conscious intimacy, while exploring new techniques and shadows.

"What is conscious intimacy?"

To connect with full attention and truth, welcoming every part of ourselves, no matter what they look like, expressing our full boundaries and desires, no matter what they sound like. 

To connect in conscious intimacy is to peel off the layers of the mundane world and welcome this moment as playful, healing, and honest.

During our time together, I coach you on every one of these aspects, and invite you to connect to your inner light and darkness, to find this healing and transformative energy which flows through Eros, as a sanctuary for rejuvenation  and a source of radical awakening.